Wheeling with new wheels

My life is such a dichotomy. I was at a lunch for Lancaster County Community of churches and I spoked to people at my table about Infobility & my philosophy of independence.I come home and my friend is all smiles, she found a cuute guy whse mom is buying her food. WHAT? Last I checked she had more food then I did. She went out for a smoke I looked down, and sure enough there was the food from her last trip to the food back, still in the bag! No wonder the stigma is so strong for my population.